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2011年8月3日星期三

Scorpio with Gemini mom HELP?

-we just got done arguing and I walked away, but all I want to do is go back and tell her off. My mom can be the most unfeeling person in the world. When she sees that something's hurting me and I don't want to talk about it, she can't just leave it alone. She has to get all up in my face and yell, curse, and insult me instead of shutting her mouth and even TRYING to think about why I might not want to. I hate it. "Why can't you be more like this? Why are you never happy?" she continues to ask me. But when I ask her if she needs help with something or if she's okay, she ignores me - then it's like everything she's been holding in EXPLODES the minute I do the smallest thing she doesn't like!!



The thing she doesn't realize is how unpredictable she is. I try to come to her with one problem just to have her shout at me. A year or 2 later I might try again and she's the happy ******* homemaker. It gets to this point where I just DON'T BOTHER and instead turn to my father - a Cancer man who always understands where I'm coming from. Too bad he doesn't live with us.



We hardly know anything about eachothers lives which I'd be just fine with if she could learn how to back off, but she only listens to my ideas once every blue moon..what can I do to make myself feel better since she won't even try?Scorpios don't like to express their feelings and often keep them in until they feel they trust someone..then they'll open up. Even then, you will not get everything revealed from one. Geminis rule communication and often blurts out things they probably didn't mean to say. Both you and her are not compatible signs, therefore not getting along well. You and you father on the other hand are compatible and would actually console you and could make you feel better. Cancers are ruled by the moon which are your emotions. They often connect to peoples easily and can be great friends. I would suggest not letting your Scorpio temper heat the situation more (I know that's hard to do). Maybe you could let her know a little more about how you feel but explain to her you are a little more reserved but you are trying. Geminis rule communication like I said and will probably pry until she is satisfied. But I am sure it's out of concern.



I hope this helps a little ..good luck! :)

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