-Im a pisces....
Hes a taurus and usually a very patient guy...however when he gets pissed...he gets PISSED...like i never saw this before in him.....well i never lived with him
Now im living with him....even though he is so super sweet to me 9 times out of 10, spoils me like alot...listens to my every need.....but when he explodes its really scary....and that 1 time he does....eliminates all the good things he does for me....because its just SO scary....
Gosh...should I pursue this relationship or not? Been with him for 9 years.....
He went crazy on me yesterday night....didnt care about me one bit....it was his way or the highway..i cried my eyes out....and still no effect on him...its like he didnt even care...he didnt even love me.....(its wasnt even that big of a deal- it was over him watching a movie with his friend without telling me he will not be picking up my calls...I was worried....and started to yell about how he should have told me before he went...he thinks im acting like his mom..and it went from there)
so confused what do u guys think?Taurii are very patient creatures. Very patient. But when they do become angry, all hell breaks loose. This is a normal aspect of their relationship. Whatever set him off must've been built on top of things he's put up with, whether it was you or other small things, then some bigger things and then the whole mountain came crashing down.
And he should be angry. It may be a shock to you when he does blow his top off, but at least he doesn't get angry over every little thing. Though his anger is bitter and black when it erupts... Stay with him, this is just a part of all Taurii. A very high patience, but very explosive rage. He loves you I'm sure but .. you know a person has to let off their steam, and you were unfortunate enough to trigger it and take the blow.It is not wise to live with someone you are fearful of. Whether you have been together for 9 weeks or 9 years if you do not feel safe around him, or if he makes you feel uncomfortable, you are not in a good relationship, and should either consider couples counseling, or going your separate ways.
It is normal. They don't call them bulls for no reason. The taurus can get pretty grilled up. Not to mention the fact you are a Pisces making it 100 times harder for you than most other signs.
If this is seriously scaring you that much you should dump him and find a guy who can understand you better.
Just try to keep him away from any axes and other sharp objects, and you should be safe enough.
there are two related aspects, one is aggression and another one is anger.
from you description , it is not clear , whether you are talking about occasional bouts of aggression or anger.
for aggression, mercury should make adverse angle with chiron.
for anger , mercury should make adverse agnle with venus as per lifescape astrology priniciples.
once you know the correct problem, for which you can post his birth data at following website, we can advice him gemstone, which will significantly reduce his problem.
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This is normal behavior for an abusive partner to do. When you are in love, you only want what is best for him and he only wants what is best for you. I think Taurus "boy" is trying to intimidate you and it is working for him. You should never be scared of your boyfriend. Taurus can be stubborn, but stubborn isn't supposed to be scary. I was intimidated before by my "mate" and I was afraid too. And this is what happens when you begin living with someone that is abusive. First it starts out just as you described, 9 out of 10 times he's so sweet to you. Then after a couple of months, it will be 8 out of 10 times he will be sweet, and then it will be 6 out of 10 times and this will continue until it becomes 1 out of ten times he is nice to you. I refer to the "good days" as the "honeymoon period" and the "bad days" as the " dark days" You need to let him go. Now. Please believe me, he is not going to get better, he is only going to get worse. And do you want to be scared all your life? I snuck out one morning with our 8yr old daughter after he went to work because I was scared for my life. You need to get out and learn to be independent. I think men are often resentful of women, abusive men anyway. And the longer you are with them the more "entitled" they feel to treat you like dirt. Please learn from the Foolish Woman who made her own mistakes and be the Wise Woman that learned from the mistakes of others. Abusive men can just "snap" so don't let him know you are leaving. Find a safe house and do not believe him when he says that he will change. He won't and many women don't survive relationships like these. Get out early. Make a clean break. And never go back. You deserve so much more in life than treatment like this. Read the above definition of what love really is . Wanting the best for each other. He has broken the deal. Good luck and Bless you and this has nothing to do with sun signs. This is abuse and call it what it is. Abuse. Bless you heart. Good luck to you.
try to avoid loud voice and remarks even when you are angry
those will make him feel cornered
if he feels like that, your tears won't do much
I have Mars in Taurus
I will do everything I can to please my lover
but if I feel cornered or attacked or unappreciated, I will lose temper easily
I notice this with Venus in Taurus also
not sure about his chart but you said he is 9 out of 10 sweet,
so it's possible he is under pressure of something else too
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