-Im a pisces and ive been lonely for the past 2 years already. the reason ive been lonley is because ive never gone out before with my friends when i turned 15 i decided i wanted to go out to places with my friends like a normal teen then almost every time i went out with my friends me and my mother always got into fights she didnt wanted me to go out with my friends. so all this fighting took a hard hit in school my grades went down so i decided to go to take home schooled just to make my mom happy. She was happy because my grades went up and she knew i was at home all day just what she wished for. So a 2 years pass 16 yr old still home schooled, i have no friends, feel really depressed because of loneliness. Us pisces need the attention, unfortunately there is a lack of attention in my life what do i do?? :lFind some good friends, go shopping, have fun. Search all day if you have to, but don't let yourself get depressed from being alone. Try to work on your grades. If you can get them up you can keep them up.
Often decisions that we make in life are better for others than ourselves. In this case, to please your mother, you decided to be home schooled. I too home schooled my daughter because she just didn't thrive in the public school system. She needed more personal attention than she was getting in the public schools and also the kids were so cruel to her since we were new to the area. Kids can be very cruel to someone that is different and new. She is very smart and is now a junior in college. You are in the same position as she was because you are not getting any socialization at all. Teens need some socialization I am inclined to believe that your friends contributed to your low grades and possibly did not have your best intentions at heart? That is extremely common. In order to have friends you have to partake in certain "earthly pleasures" too early in life. Does your mother care that you are lonely? It really isn't good that you are alone so much of the time, particularly for a Pisces, who need social interaction in order to feel part of this world. Pisces rules infinity and that's a pretty big place to roam alone. I find it hard to believe that your mother had no social interaction when she was your age, or it may be that she got into things that she doesn't want you to get into and that is why she feels more comfortable with you at home than at school with your friends. I am not saying that she is a bad mother at all. I just wonder how she believes that you are ok with no activities in your life. So what do you like to do? That is the first question that needs to be answered. Second, are there any activities in your town that you could join? Another thing that would get you out of the house would be to get a part-time job. Many people find great friends at their workplace. Plus it would give you some spending money to go out with someone you meet. You have got to get out of that house. Do you have transportation? How long until you get your drivers license? These are all things to consider because your happiness is at stake here. The teen years are awkward years and everything seems so bleak at times. Is there a place where you could volunteer as Pisces' are greatly rewarded when they volunteer their time to another. Is there a YMCA around your area? It would be good for you to have a personal hobby or passion that you enjoy and then you can share that passion with others. Find a class somewhere that has something that you might like to try. You are going to have to do the research but since you are home so much, get on the internet and see what is available in your area. it is amazing how many churches and organizations need people to volunteer or their programs will shut down for good. Habitat for Humanity is an awesome place to volunteer and you will meet tons of people and you will be known as one with a respectable honorable character and that is so important in the long run. (Looks great on a resume too) Even babysitting youngsters could be enjoyable for you and also will get you out of the house. You have a creative mind as you are a Pisces. Now you need to use that mind to think of ways to get you out of your home. Pisces are always creative in one way or another, so find a class with something that interests you. There are always people around when classes are offered so you will meet others that don't have to "party" to have a good time. I would suggest a youth group at a local church because they are always doing something and going somewhere. You could be a good helper. My daughter began setting up coffee and snacks before the church-goers arrived and she loved when they had their big garage sale of the year as she got to go through everything first! And there will be teens around your age. And most churches today are casual so there isn't that "oh I''ve got to get dressed up and act all religious" attitude as much as there used to be when i was young. So use that energy (or the lack of energy) to find something that appeals to you. This is why there are so many hobbies in the world. It keeps one entertained and at the end of the day they have made something tangible like a beaded necklace (I don't know why but I keep thinking about making jewelry for you with that creative Pisces energy) And who knows? Your passion could become your income! Please talk with mom because she might even have a few ideas. Just because moms love our kids doesn't mean we want them to not have a good time. We just want you to be safe and happy. I believe the safe part is well taken care of. Now it is time to work on the happy part. Good luck and bless you.
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